Ending your marriage is difficult regardless of the situation, but the divorce process does not have to be hard. There are things you can do to help it go more smoothly and quickly, which can help you to move past the end of your relationship and towards your new future. It will take the work of you and your spouse to help avoid stress and issues that can delay the divorce or make it more difficult. However, if you both want to get through the process as fast as possible, you can use that to your advantage.
The American Psychological Association explains that cooperating with each other will be the biggest factor is how smooth your divorce is. Now is not the time to try to win arguments or rehash old issues. It helps if you both just focus on the task at hand.
It also helps if you both understand that you cannot get it all. You will have to negotiate. You will have to be willing to lose on some points. It can help if you both commit to open and clear communication. This can make it much easier to work out the details and move forward quickly.
You also need to focus on what matters when it comes to hot button issues. For example, if you have children, focus on what is best for them and not what you want when it comes time to discuss custody matters.
Looking for a fight whenever you interact will only cause delays and issues. So, it is best to go into the situation without all those emotions that led you to this point. While this may be easier said than done, it is well worth it to at least try to push your emotions aside and to be practical when discussing your divorce details.