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Divorce is difficult for everyone in the family, but sometimes parents forget that it impacts their children, too. The separation of parents does not have to have a negative impact on children. It usually causes stress and strain only when the parents fight and put the children in the middle of things. If you have concerns over how your divorce will affect your children, then the best thing to do is find a way to get through the process amicably with their other parent.

According to Psychology Today, kids whose parents argue a lot and who cannot maintain the peace during a divorce may worry about the well-being of their parents and feel like they have to choose sides. They may also feel abandoned, angry, confused or disappointed.

During the divorce, your child may start acting different. He or she could show signs on withdrawing or having problems adjusting to changes. It is important to give your child attention and to help him or her with whatever he or she is feeling. At the same time, you need to keep adult problems between the adults. Your children should never have to deal with the issues between you and the other parent.

Divorce is typically easier for younger children. They will often get past the impact of the divorce within a couple of years with no lasting effects. Older children, though, may learn bad relationship habits or have emotional issues that linger. It is important to recognize the impact of the divorce and help your child through it with counseling or whatever help he or she needs.